Ross Millen, 31, has said that moving to Morecambe in summer 2024 and then to Inverness in summer 2025 left him and his wife Sarah and toddler son Jude in Glasgow.
The 13-year senior career right-back, who has played for nine clubs, admitted the distance made family life difficult, with a two-hour train to Morecambe and a four-hour drive to Inverness.
Family at the centre
Millen explained that his priority was ensuring a good life for his son. "It's tough because you want to make sure you're obviously trying to make a good life for your son," he told the Fife Free Press. His wife Sarah and Jude stayed in Glasgow while he played for Morecambe, travelling up and down the city to visit. The commute became problematic when Jude began walking; the train ride was no longer compatible with a toddler running around.
Travel challenges
When Millen transferred to Inverness, the distance increased. "I was actually further away from home in Inverness than I was at Morecambe," he said. The four-hour car journey meant that Sunday afternoons and Saturday matches made it hard to see his son. He relied on FaceTime to keep contact, but the physical separation was still a strain.
Returning home
After a year at Inverness, Millen returned to Raith Rovers on a one-year contract. He now lives with Sarah and Jude in Glasgow, commuting only 45 minutes to Kirkcaldy for training and matches. "It's brilliant, because I know Raith Rovers as well, the place etcetera. It's just a nice place to be," he added. He praised the club’s staff, noting the familiarity and support that made the transition smoother.
Millen’s journey highlights the personal toll of frequent moves for footballers. While the club offers professional opportunities, the long commutes and family adjustments can be significant. His story underscores the importance of stability for players and their loved ones.
